Short Marriage
It still seems weird when people that have gotten married after us get divorced. To me I still feel like a newlywed, but I guess after eight years that title no longer really applies. Where have the last eight years went?
Yesterday we heard that the Wife’s cousin is getting divorced. They just got married last summer. They wanted to save money on pictures, so they had me take their wedding pictures. Everybody thought they turned out great, I thought they were only so-so, but then I am probably my biggest critic. Maybe it was a good thing that they didn’t want to spend much money on wedding pictures now.
I didn’t care much for the guy she married, so I am not really surprised that they are getting divorced. He was lazy and irresponsible. He was always going from shitty job to shitty job not making much money, but still making sure he went on all his hunting and fishing trips and spent all his money on his toys. My Wife’s cousin is going to school and working two jobs to try and cover the bills.
There is no way I would make my Wife work two jobs and go to school. Paying bills and providing for my Wife is number one, even if I have to get three jobs. My toys come last. Maybe that’s why I am still married.
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Salena
That probably is the reason you are still married. You are responsible and aren’t selfish.
The #1 reason people get divorced is money. My ex-husband did me that way… I worked much more than full time and went to school full time too while he hardly worked and spent money. That last all of two years
Helene
You’ve got honor and integrity, which many men and women don’t. Marriage is about being a team, but it’s often difficult for people to understand that a successful team needs to consist of two hardworking, healthy peeps.
Good post,
Helene
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